The gift that will lead us to gain the respect of others

08-03-2018 Nerxt
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Matthew German: Who wants to lie, cheat and you want to cheat, lie.

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Credibility is achieved simply creating us. But much attention. The issue is not as simple as it seems. One thing is quite another definition and the daily and ongoing exercise through which we gain credibility. The word has been devalued to the point that no one wants to believe anyone. And while there will always want reasons to distrust and take certain precautions.

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The well-known story of the shepherd liar, a young man any bad day in his life gave him play say that his view was a harmless fib, it is one of the best examples of the reasons for the loss of credibility. It affects a lie; the left two seriously injured, three of them left completely and irreversibly destroyed. And all because, as the saying goes "into the mouth of a liar to the truth is doubtful." And certainly, when someone lies and repeatedly does not know when we were telling the truth and when not. So we opted for the best interest of the case: never believe him.

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It is clear therefore that the credibility is lost strength to betray the truth, but the truth something that belongs to us: the word. To be more exact, our own word. Let's be honest to recognize something: in our age it is difficult to believe other people and even institutions. So we could say that we are all liars until we prove otherwise. It is you who is responsible tell you if your interlocutor is telling the truth or lying. It is he who gets to show that tells the truth. And so we come to documents, evidence, certificates, and, in some cases, to the testimony.

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Credibility is a heritage of those who have as a rule of life respect themselves and their word. It is the highest good of those who have no other assets but make a sincere effort to keep all that really are: the fact that others listen and believe them.

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Credibility is earned based to be consistent between what you feel and think; between what you think is said; between what is said and done. If a difference between what we feel is presented, think, say and do, we are seriously exposing be considered unreliable and that fact will lead to that we look very carefully before they accept as true what we say if that we accept it.

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Consistency is the key. Feelings can not oppose the approach that we are publicly known and the facts may not have even minor inconsistencies with the words express. Upon losing the coherence lose confidence, and with it the credibility. And society will never believe us. And it will be extremely difficult to rediscover who creates us.

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The message of a person without credibility is like this: "Do not believe everything I say because at any moment I can even tell a lie I'm telling you this now could turn out to be false.". They were? Do you believe or not believe him?